How would you describe yourself to someone?
This is a tough question. As humans, we identify ourselves in different ways, and for different reasons. A professional bio reads differently than a dating profile, for example, and it’s possible that something from the former could scare away people from the latter. (Though one time I did have dinner with a woman who responded to me because I had a puppet that looked like two of hers.)

For years, my defining phrase was “college theatre professor.” As I have detailed in previous posts, retiring took that away, but I do feel as if I have the university stamp of approval from being given emeritus status. That suggests a continuing contribution to the world of academia, and not just abandoning it.
I can also list qualities I believe I have: creativity, loyalty, a never-ending drive to do and to succeed. I’m philosophical in my approach to life and spiritual in my thinking about death (though that does dip more than a toe into the metaphysical).
I can also use nouns to describe myself. Recently, I listed “poet, playwright, podcaster, novelist, screenwriter, filmmaker, and theatre director.” As for my legacy, while I’d like to be remembered for all of these, I am first and foremost a teacher, who has touched the lives of many students.
So, if you’re interested in dating me… Or this wasn’t the dating profile? Oops!
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Very hard thing to do. Buddhist or not I think it’s a waste of time or even a destructive act trying to describe yourself. Lately I’ve just been trying to accept who i am and try not to get stuck in a self-loop.
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Self-loops are easy traps for those who think too much and not calmly. Okay, that’s a terrible koan!
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